I'm getting married next month and we've decided to make it all about family and friends. We'll be in a park, there will be no alcohol, the food will be catered barbecue, and now we're talking about switching out a traditional wedding cake for cupcakes. What do you think?

What we have envisioned is a multi-tier structure filled with cupcakes so it still sort of looks like a wedding cake. At the top will be a small traditional cake so we can cut it for pictures and maybe even save it for the first anniversary for that one tradition.

I think it can look really elegant and it's certainly a lot less messy. I'm leaning toward that route.