I've heard the saying "Chivalry is dead" but I find very chivalrous men everywhere. I was told more than once by men that "not all women appreciate it and are often offended."

I was shocked.

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What's not to love about anyone offering to make your day easier or less heavy? I'm an independent woman and fairly strong so of course I can do it myself, but that's not the point. The kindness of anyone offering to lighten my load is much appreciated!

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If there is a door I don't need to open (while I'm carrying a million things) or someone offers to help me lift something into my truck from a big Costco run...I'm very appreciative. I also try to return the favor to those I see who need it.

For those who do appreciate men who offer good values and courtesy according to DatingNews.Com

The city in Washington with the most charming men is:

#1 Tacoma
Nestled along the shores of Puget Sound, Tacoma's men are known for their courteous demeanor and friendly nature. Whether it's offering a helping hand on a rainy day or holding the door with a smile, their acts of kindness brighten even the cloudiest days. It's a place where small acts of politeness create a big sense of community, making everyone feel right at home. The list shows Bellevue and Vancouver as second and third in the state.

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That is not to say there aren't wonderful chivalrous men around us. I could give you ten right off the top of my head who live here in the Tri-Cities.  Now, if being 'Chivalrous' was all we were looking for that would be easy. Right?

I will say, that I think it's important to respect yourself enough that the message is loud and clear about the way you expect to be treated by a potential partner. Admittedly, This one took me many years to learn!

How do I find better men to date?

A recent survey found women who have repeatedly encountered less than respectful men on dating sites, conveyed traits that were important to them.

  • Patience and understanding: 32%
  • Politeness and respect: 31%
  • Thoughtfulness and consideration: 19%
  • Good communication skills: 14%
  • Humility and modesty: 4%

Whether you frequent dating sites or hope to meet someone organically, remember that it all begins with the precedent you set.

Happy Dating!

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